ASK ME SOMETHING!!!

August 31, 2011 2 Comments

Talking about yourself is fun, and for most of us, it’s addicting. Whether you choose to admit to it or not, deep down, we all love ourselves. But when on a date and engaged in conversation with someone who you are supposedly “getting to know,” you should probably find out a little bit about them too.

One sided rants are exhausting, so don’t chew your date’s ear off. Maintaining a balanced conversation is a combined effort. So sometimes, you’ll have to take the torch and ask him some questions. And I’m not talking about just asking vanilla questions like “What do you do for a living” or “How was your day” (read: The Icebreakers), I’m talking about the questions that actually prove that you are interested. The second, and third, and fourth level questions AFTER you ask one or two or both of boring questions above.

These are the “what really makes you tick” questions. The kind of conversation that make him open up, tell you about himself and his habits, and give you the intel you need to find out if he is a legit dude.


Here are some things to keep in mind:

1. Avoid questions that allow for one-word or short-phrase answers.
2. Stick with a topic and really challenge the guy on it.
3. Showcase your wit, and gauge his sense of humor.

Coming off confident and interested will instantly increase your sex appeal. Once you have accomplished that, he’ll be putty in your hands.

Then…it’s up to you to decide whether he’s worth the second date.

Go to work ladies…

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