If you hang out with a bunch of dudes socially…

July 5, 2011 2 Comments

So I ask you what you’re doing this weekend…

You’re single…

Seemingly available…

Maybe this could go somewhere…

And yet your response completely vaporizes any possibility of us making plans.

Why???

Because you’re that girl that maintains a bunch of JV guy friends, surrounds herself with them every time she goes out, and yet cannot figure out why she hasn’t found “The Guy.”

Understand this, few things can deter men from pursuing a woman of interest: large wild animals, natural disasters, and communicable diseases. It’s a short list…


But if there’s one thing that will send the RIGHT guy in the WRONG direction, it’s the scent of unworthy dudes.

I’m referring to the male “buddies” you keep and rely on like a social crutch. The guys who either aren’t good enough or aren’t bold enough to actually date you…you know…the kind of guys who you would never hook up with even when you’re drunk (or perhaps only if you were really drunk and as a last resort). You view these guys as harmless, helpless, hopeless, or all of the above, maybe even convenient. But to the guy you’d actually like to meet, this scenario acts like “interest repellent.” Getting to know you is hard enough without having to navigate through an offensive line.

So, if you’re serious about finding a companion, its time to ween yourself off the attention and comfort you receive from your entourage of male buddies. Venture out on your own. Remove the outer layer of social male friends and make yourself truly available for something new.

This looks interesting…

 

Dating, Lifestyle, Relationships, Social
2 Comments to “If you hang out with a bunch of dudes socially…”
  1. Secret says:

    Omg! I totally see this all the time w my friend

  2. Jackie Troia says:

    hahaha story of my life

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